A Confession #2

Posted: May 31, 2010 in Desire, Writing

I have just realised: the sex blog is a confessional.

It is just that the confessor and the priest keep switching roles.

I love that image, two people in isolation, speaking so intimately, like lovers. Sworn to secrecy.

If we could just get rid of the concept of ‘sin’ it might be a very therapeutic process.

I absolve you of your sins. Now tell me everything.

Comments
  1. Georgette says:

    I’m a virgin who had zher 1st kiss at the age of 29.

  2. I hope it was a good kiss! Thank-you for sharing your secret with me.

  3. Fauxnoc says:

    I am attracted to all of my close friends.

  4. Friends are very attractive people! But I can see that sexual attraction can sometimes complicate friendship. Thanks Fauxnoc for your lovely confession.

  5. I sometimes feel like a fraud.

  6. Matt says:

    No confession, but your point about switching roles did get me thinking… at my very catholic school we were expected to go to confession, and it was very common for the priest on the other side to prompt. Sort of like this: “what are your sins?”, “I lied, stole from the tuckshop, etc”, “Hmm OK. And have you touched yourself?”, “…”, “Do you touch yourself in groups with other boys”, and so on. And one wondered whether the priest was really interested in giving absolution, or just fishing for material to use in the privacy of their own vestry…

  7. That small anecdote says a lot about the Catholic tradition doesn’t it? Thanks for sharing.

    I wouldn’t want to cast aspertions on your priest but I expect you may be right.

    Even if it wasn’t for his own sexual gratification, it shows how the Catholic morality is geared towards finding ‘sin’ in the most natural of practices. Imagine the priests’ training courses!

    1. Masturbation
    2. Sodomy
    3. Infidelity
    4. Orgies

    etcetc

  8. Matt says:

    5. Contraception

  9. Anon says:

    I quite like the idea of bondage, but I don’t think I’d want someone to do it to me, and that would be had to explain.

  10. Hi anon some fantasies are just fine left as they are, in the imagination!

    Thank you for your honest confession.

  11. Dominant4962 says:

    I love her, but I’ve cum in three other women since we’ve been together. I can’t stop looking for lovers. If she made love to me more than once in 5 years, I might.

  12. Love isn’t always easy is it, Dominant4962?

    I hope you get to talk with her as openly as you have with us.

    Thank-you for your confession.

    (Oh and do consider safe sex and sex health issues)

  13. I’ve just discovered I really enjoy casual sex with virtual strangers. I assumed that afterwards I would feel dirty – if not immediately then a few days later, but it just hasn’t happened. Even if they do really degrading things to me. In fact the degradation makes it even better.

    It’s so liberating, I want to tell everyone!

    • Dominant4962 says:

      english thorn – I read your blog – how do I contact you??? 🙂

      Sorry QRG if I’m stepping on you toes.
      (delete this & accept my apologies if I am!)

  14. Thank you for your rather hot and delicious confession english thorn. I can see why people go into the priesthood now.😉

    P.s. I have left some condoms in the collection box just in case you need supplies…

  15. Anon says:

    My Best Sex Ever involved being tied up by my then gf. She then went on to dress me in her stockings & suspenders, put a wig & red lipstick on me & penetrate me with a BIG dildo while telling me what a slut I was. We’re both with other, straighter partners now but occasionally have a drink together & reminisce. God, she & I had some dirty, dirty sex (that night was especially interesting but there were others…) and we both miss it.

  16. Thank you for your confession, Anon

    Sometimes, ‘straight’ partners aren’t that straight at all…

    This is the Best Confessional Ever!

  17. Burst Pistil says:

    I’ve just arranged a sex meet with a 20 year old paramedic *Kerching* Oh O.k. this isn’t a confession, I’m bragging. I love the internet.

    Alright a confession, I’m slightly worried he will be repulsed by my beer gut.

  18. Thank you for your boastful confession Burst Pistil.

    I am sure your suitor won’t notice your beer gut, because he will be so charmed by your humour and intelligent conversation. When the inevitable does occur, he still won’t notice it, because, well, his mind will be on other things by then.

    Do come back to confess the sordid details of this tryst.

  19. I fear this confessional is turning into a dating agency😉

    It is a very modern church.

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