Fist

I had a friend who described once in quite a bit of detail, how she fisted her lover as a ‘submissive act’. I couldn’t get my head round it. He was a surgeon I think. (Oh god or did I make that up? I don’t think so. He had a good job. He was Australian [...]

Piss Flower

Before we go to sleep, he whispers in my ear: ‘If you need to piss in the night you must ask my permission. OK?’ ‘Ok’ I say. I don’t really think about what this means. I am battered, my mind is still bent out of shape. Earlier he told me to piss and he collected [...]

The New Pornographers

Move over Elle McPherson, there is a new ‘The Body’ in town, and it has got abs to die for. I was never a massive Ronaldo aficianado. I knew he had a great physique, but there was something about his slightly puggish, prissy  face and lack of anything particularly  unique about his countenance that meant he never really turned [...]

Stiletto Rage

Arguing about gender roles is something I love to do. I have realised that I particularly enjoy doing it with dominant men, even when I am within striking distance. Foolish maybe, but I cannot help myself. A typical argument might go along these lines: Him:’I would like to see you in stilettos and a tight [...]

Games Perverts Play

Games Perverts Play is here! http://gamespervertsplay.wordpress.com/ Games Perverts Play : stories and essays from the sidelines of pornography… Games Perverts Play is a new and unique collaborative writing project, edited by Quiet Riot Girl www.quietgirlriot.wordpress.com Games Perverts Play uses pornography and essays  to explore the less examined sides of our libidos, and to dissect our sexualities. [...]

Carnival Of Kinky Feminists

I am delighted to announce the second edition of the Blog Carnival Of Kinky Feminists has been released. This time the theme is ‘experience’. All the pieces are essays, as the erotica/porn we received was not of a high enough standard. If you do write S and M/Kink porn and want it to be included [...]

Taken: A Story in Two Parts

Part One: Two Strangers It is hot in the city. But underground it’s a furnace. My tights are sticking to my legs as I clamber onto the tube with all the other sweating commuters. Hanging from the rail above my head, my underarms are not as fragrant as they were when I left the office. [...]

Arbitrary

It was our second date.  Our first to begin in the bright light of day.  We were in a pub, with the Saturday afternoon crowd. I sipped my wine and my hands shook a little. His hands were busy stroking my leg, my crotch, my hair. I felt as if everyone was looking at us [...]

Questionnaire for potential dominants

1. Are you single? If yes, go to q3. If no, go to q2. 2. Are you and your partner(s) open and honest about the fact you see other people? If yes go to q3. If no, go away. 3. Are you a feminist, or at least an ally of feminism? If yes, go to [...]

Paradox

He says I am a paradox. People always say that. Normally they mean it is paradoxical that a feminist and a ‘strong woman’ like me could be submissive. Let a man walk all over her like that. But I don’t see any paradox there. It’s just sex. You don’t have to re-enact all your political [...]